Archive - Findomme 101

Using apps to monitor subs

Since we’re 21st century findommes, using apps is sort of a given.

Jul 27 •

November 2024

What is "pass the pig"?

Findommes are so creative in the ways they humiliate their submissives, and today, I’d like to talk about one of my favorites: pass the pig.

Nov 3, 2024 •

Moving your social media following

As the eternal migration from Twitter to other platforms continues, I’ve seen members of some of my engagement groups doing some clever things to…

Nov 3, 2024 •

October 2024

This week's problem with Twitter

The site's latest change may come with a side of harassment and privacy risks

Oct 20, 2024 •

Putting OF and LF to work

Recently, I received this message from a reader:

Oct 20, 2024 •

Content creation for humiliation

I recently wrote Humiliation basics and SPH and ratings, two topics that lend themselves to content creation.

Oct 6, 2024 •

SPH and ratings

I recently added an article about humiliation, from a financial domination perspective.

Oct 6, 2024 •

Humiliation basics

Humiliation can be a powerful tool for findommes to add to their arsenal.

Oct 5, 2024 •

September 2024

Where to chat with subs

Updated 10/2024

Sep 22, 2024 •

Is it OK to take a break from findom?

I recently wrote about taking a six month break from findom, for both safety and peace of mind.

Sep 22, 2024 •

Is findom sex work?

A recurring question in many findomme spaces is whether or not what we do is sex work.

Sep 21, 2024 •

A warning about payment processors

Ah, the wonderful world of sex work.

Sep 3, 2024 •

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