How do I deal with time wasters?
Wherever women are making money, there are people whose sole purpose seems to be wasting women’s time. Findommes get a steady stream of time wasters in their DMs, no matter which platforms they use.
What is a time waster?
In findom, any random person who messages a domme without paying her is a time waster.
Time wasters come in various forms. A lot of them are scammers, and you can read about those in Is this a scam?
What to do with time wasters
I have two approaches for people who waste my time.
I roll my eyes and block them, without responding. If I’m busy doing other things, and get a stock scam message, am I going to let that interrupt my day? No, I am not. Block, delete, and get right back to what I’m doing.
I waste their time. On days when I’m really not doing anything beyond waiting for the dryer to buzz so I can fold laundry, I will fill my time fucking with time wasters. I pretend I don’t understand them, and make them explain themselves over and over. I tell them a random story about going grocery shopping or to the dentist. I will frustrate them, and waste their time until the dryer buzzes, and then I drop a link to my unblock fee, and block them. If I’ve kept them going for a bit, I’ll post screenshots of the conversation.
It’s up to you how you deal with time wasters, but remember: they can’t waste your time unless you let them. Simply refuse to participate in whatever it is they want, and get on with your day.