What is a silent send?
A silent send refers to a sub sending money to a domme without identifying themselves or contacting the domme. The sub is completely silent.
Why do silent senders send?
Most silent senders enjoy sending almost anonymously to a domme, simply for the pleasure of sending. Some also enjoy seeing the domme react on social media.
If findom is a kink where the sub enjoys sending money, with nothing in return, silent senders are exploring that kink in its purest form.
Silent senders may not be finsubs
Don’t assume your silent sender is just a very shy finsub. They may be someone who enjoys the sending aspect of findom, but not the submission. They may be a sugar daddy, or someone who just doesn’t want the commitment of a D/s relationship.
What to do if you receive a silent send
If you receive a silent send, celebrate on social media! Don’t divulge the name of your sender, or go looking for them to thank them privately. If they wanted that contact, they’d get in touch.