10 steps: new socials and email

Updated 7/2025

Armed with a good profile pic, and some content photos, it’s time to set up some new accounts.

First, create a new email address that references your domme name. You’ll use this for all your findomme accounts. Do not use an email address you already use for other things. Keep your findom business separate from your vanilla life.

Next, pick two or three social media platforms you’re already familiar with, and make new domme accounts there. I started with Twitter and Insta, where I was most comfortable, but now, I might choose Discord, Reddit, or Bluesky. Don’t try to set up accounts everywhere you can think of all at once. Two or three will keep you busy for a bit. Be sure to name your accounts somewhat consistently from platform to platform. I grab MistressZynn everywhere I go, but maybe you want to use some combo of letters and numbers, so you’re not tied to your domme name later.

Use your new profile pic, and be consistent with this across every platform. Using the same pic everywhere will make it easy for folks who follow you on one platform to know it’s you on the next one. I always do this: when I change one profile pic, I make the rounds of all my socials, and change them all to the new one.

Your first post

As you create your new socials, take a moment to make your first post on each one. Keep it low key, and don’t specifically mention you’re new.

So, your first post on Twitter or Instagram might say something like this:

Ready to be worshiped.
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Or, whatever you feel inspired to say. It could be “Open your wallets, I’m here.” or “You’ll never know what hit you”. Whatever you want to say. Then, add one of your photos, and you’ve got your first post.

Never use hashtags

In general, hashtags get dommes in trouble. Stay off the radar, and use keywords instead. Some dommes use a ton of them, and some just use a few. I currently just use two or three below the post, like I’ve shown here.

Post again

Now, you have brand new accounts, which unfortunately, are the kiss of death. Start posting three or more times every day. Post as often as you can stand. Knock that new account smell off. Don’t worry about following anyone in the findom world just yet, but if you have a few celebrities you like to follow, go on and add them. Don’t follow any subs who latch on to you. They’re following you because they think you’re a minor, because you’re not verified yet. We’ll take care of that shortly.